**Heartstring of A new mommy**

Having to train a new maid who is completely never touch house chores is terribly hard and always drives me up to wall. Though communication should not be a problem, in dealing with Philippine maid but we ended like having chicken and duckling chat. I can’t get what she said as her Philippine slang sounds so strong. Whatever I said, she responded by nodding her head which I assume she understand eventually, she’s not. They were so many misunderstanding happened between us. At times, I found myself should go for online military degrees in language speaking course. Else, I should use body language then….

I always love going for massage. Since my very last session of massage, it has been about 2 years that i never had it at all. Few weeks ago, i went for my facial treatment and believe it or not, i had neither had my facial since i conceived Xavier.Yeah, for more than two years.

Goshh… i simply enjoy the treatment and love the feeling when my face & shoulder being massaged. If you having the same like me, you get what i meant. Guess i should register myself with Cosmetology School in Austin. While learning, i hope i get to experience difference types of beauty treatment as well.

How do I begin to tell you how lucky I am
to have you in my life…
I’ll start by saying what an honor it is
for me to be your wife.

You’re my best friend in the good times
and my rock in times of sorrow.
You’re the reason for sweet yesterdays
and my promise for tomorrow.

I never thought I could feel this loved
until I became your wife.
You made this year and every year
the best one of my life.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY & sorry for that not-so-happily celebration. Love you….

The not-so-happily incident was Xavier felt from the dining chair and got a big bump on his forehead. Both were so excited looking at the cake placed on the table and climbed up the chair to grab it. The fall was pretty severe as I found his right cheek & ear were redden with a minor swollen. Blame on myself for not keeping eye on him…

Like what most people concerned, having a family require a good planning indeed, especially when you have children. From the day you tight up the knot to the last breathe of your life…. It does require a good planning.

A good planning may lead to higher possibilities of success. It may not be all the time. At times thing may change as it goes and it may not go as planned too. I told daddy that he require to have a good planning on his financial as I hope to provide a good education opportunities to the kiddos despite we are not from the high income earner. I wanted to enroll them to the privatized school instead of localize school. But daddy replied that ‘ I should invest more on the gold coin in order to fulfill your wish.’

I always wanted to bring kiddos for a short trip regardless to local destination. We did plan on it by having it every month or 2 months in view that we do not need to squeeze our time to meet school holiday or public holidays.

On July, we went to Penang and we planned to go Damai Laut, Perak end of August during the long weekend (28/8 – 31/8). Somehow, we have to cancel the said trip due to I am lacking of Annual Leave. All my leave has been used up when kiddos were sick or personal matters. And I can foresee I’ll be query if taking leave AGAIN and if it is for holidays. So no choice got to let go of this trip.

Swiss-Villas Semi D Type B- 2 bedroom Selling at RM500

So anyone is interested to go there for a short breakaway?? Do drop me at comment…

I have been addicted in buy gold lately. I wonder what had changed my taste but I simply love to look at myself with that shinny gold stuff. Especially with modernization of life, the gold designs can be in variety for choice. I like it so much when it matches with ruby, simply gorgeous. Even my three years old daughter has falling in love with gold that is Mickey Mouse shapes.

I’m kind of regret for not listening to mom’s advise in keeping the gold when the gold rate has not floated that high. I’m thinking if it is worth to change all my platinum jewelry into gold series.

I always wonder if any others parent would encounter the same problem like I had for having a son like Xavier. He could fuss whenever or wherever he is …. And seriously, that has really put both daddy & I into a very bad experience when to bring him out. We both kind of freak-out if to bring him out.

Nowadays, I’m completely maid-less and need to send both to babysitter house by myself. We had to think of ways to keep him sit tight on the car seat for the entire journey (from my house to babysitter house about 5km). Otherwise, just a short journey can be a nightmare to all of us.

So we have to prepare these inside my car:
Food (preferable bread or biscuit), a book with pen to keep him busy with scribbling.

Some other times, when is not in his monster character, he is such a lovely, cheeky baby of daddy & mommy. The way of his calling was such a heart melting…

What else can I say but to LOVE him with all my heart….

photo taken when he was aged 1 Year Old

I have quite a huge number of paternal relatives and because of it, I always got confused with the salutation and confused of which uncle & aunts. Imagine, my paternal granny has 13 children in total, 10 sons and 3 daughters. My FIL was in the counting of 5 and the youngest uncle was actually about 10 years apart from our age. The worst is, we got to know that the wife was same age with us. Daddy and I find it weird when to call her ‘aunt’. You get what I mean, it’s like a friend but you calling her with an elderly salutation.

It happened that I need to call the aunt and I asked daddy how should I address the aunt on the phone, guess what my man told me:

Daddy: halooo, this is Debbie. Can you help to get someone to pick XXX to see doctor? She is unwell. Thank you.

What a lousy idea….