I’m the Forever Maid

December 10th, 2011

I seem had abandoned my blog so long… Not that I had nothing to update but I’m really run out of time to sit down and write. I was rather busy with the house chores because the domestic helper has gone, returned to her home sweet land in Nov’11. For almost a month, I had to clean up the mess the kids created and went into my dreamland early of next day, 1 am.

It’s indeed a tired job ever by doing all the house chores especially I want everything done in 100%. At the end of day, I suffered myself with body ache. I had to change and like what Sasha said, I need a better schedule for all the chores.

Laundry – Kids clothes wash in alternate day instead of daily, adults’ wash when accumulated
Clothes folding & ironing – whenever I free (you can imagine how messy the room is)
Bedroom clean up – alternate day
Living room clean up – still daily
Bed sheets – change every 2 weeks instead of weekly
Toys cleaning – whenever i think it’s time instead of daily

I thought by doing it, i may had my personal time to sit down and enjoy that precious ‘ME’ time. I was wrong, with the kids around, mommy has to with them all the time. Xandria ranted said:’ mommy, why are you always doing the housework?’ Am I spending too much time for the house chores and they were been isolated? I don’t know if i did but i had to get all the chores done before i can do anything else.

Sigghh…  I’m actually a lazy bug who hate to do house chores.

**Cancer Lawyer**

November 15th, 2011

Remember about my post about how terrible I am being as a mother. Both Xandria and Xavier took turns to sick as well as myself. A mommy commented that antibiotic shall not be taken should they no infection found or not in necessary. I completely agree with that.

Almost every day, we hear, we read about the misuse of medication by the practitioner especially on those medication taken for long term. Just recently, I heard about the news on the Actos taken by diabetes patient that may cause bladder cancer if no proper guidance given.

For whoever in need of assistance about it, do refer to actos cancer lawyers for more details.

I’m a lousy mom

October 18th, 2011

No mather how hard i try, how much I done just to prevent the kiddos from having illness, still it doesn’t work. At times, I’m thinking how actually the rest of mommy been doing in order to have a healthy kid. Or perhaps I’m not doing a proper role as mommy.

Again, the kids were down with fever for no reason. No infection found and the fever was as high 39c middle of night. I’m exhausted with the monitoring task almost every hour, the past few days.

Xavier was first having fever but subsided after taking antibiotic. The bacteria then infected Xandria and again, she has to be under the course of antibiotic. The monitoring task will have to continue…Sighhh!!!

Bukit Melawati, Kuala Selangor (31.08.2011)

October 10th, 2011

Like I said, I’m loosing inspiration of writing lately. Somehow, i still wish to take down some of the precious memories i had with my family.

During the Merdeka holiday, we were back to KL for that long holidays. My in-law suggested that we should go for an outing. But I was still lacking of energy to go anywhere since my last trip to Bali. I told daddy probably we should take a walk to Kuala Selangor and also for makan too.

At the restaurant @ Pasir Penampang

We then heading to the crowded waiting area for shutter to take us up to hill.


The kids very first ride on this kind of shutter bus.


At the top of hill….


monkeys… they are all over the trees.

The shutter bus then stop at another station facilitate with aquarium, birds, rabbits and etc. It’s kinda boring…


It’s drizzling and Xandria insisted to hold her umbrella…


I love this photo of us…….

Within an hour, we left the place and heading back but stop at Ijok for that famous beggar chicken. No photo taken because I was rather tiring and daddy busy with the kids.

Nothing really fun but the kids enjoyed outing with their grandparent.

Gone of another iconic star

October 6th, 2011

This morning, when I heard the news about Steve Jobs, I never thought I would feel sad at it. I actually feel like tearing after I heard about his life stories told by the radio. A young man who not even a graduate of college, fight for his life to change the world today.

Let’s commemorating Steve Job as an iconic star that retires from our universe today and may he rest in peace.

How had I been doing?

October 3rd, 2011

How had I been doing lately?

No much changes on life, just that I’m more like a TV that has been muted. The inspiration of writing flown away each time I’m punching on the keyboard. I am feeling extremely lazy to wake up despite the kids has already in their dreamland, every night. I am enjoying the life where ‘early bird get the best worm’ now.

I am still in the learning of familiarize myself with this not-so-stress life. Despite I am more flexible for the office works, still we had different point of views with our business associates. It’s the toughest thing when to have a good deal that benefits to both. Sighhh….

We were invited to the wedding dinner of the son of daddy’s boss, called Min Han. A young man aged 25yo walking into another level of his life. He looks happily but I wonder if he understand the reality life of a new couple would be. May he and the brides live happy ever after….